Ethan L. Bratt, MS, LMFT, CST August 26, 2020 Couples Counseling Hungry Couples and Long Spoons Ethan L. Bratt, MS, LMFT, CST August 26, 2020 Couples Counseling When couples both have unmet needs, it is easy to wait for the other one to start fixing things first. Here's how we talk about that in couples counseling.