Ethan L. Bratt, MS, LMFT, CST October 9, 2023 Couples Counseling, Sex Therapy 5 Awful Things to Say After You Cheat...and 5 Better Options Ethan L. Bratt, MS, LMFT, CST October 9, 2023 Couples Counseling, Sex Therapy Cheating is devastating for a relationship. What the person who violated the relationship says afterward can make all the difference between recovering the relationship or guaranteeing its demise. Here are some examples of each.